Back in the good old days when i was young , all fiction had the same plot . The beautiful princess is the catch of the town , all men pursue her , some are villains , the handsome prince slays the undeserving , the princess leaps into his arms in gratitude , and they fall in love , get married and .. We all know the prince and princess always go on to live " happily ever after " like on tvs . Cinderella and prince charming , prince florian and snow white , prince phillip and princess aurora , prince eric who caught the heart of ariel in the little mermaid . But have you ever notice that those fairytales end with wedding ? They dont even review the honeymoon and surely dont touch on trauma of discovering that this person is nothing like you and disagrees with your opinion on things as basic as doing the chores , choosing the bed sheet colors and etc .
Yes , truthfully woman/man changes after they get married . Based on what i've heard la kan . That is when the mask falls from their face . We finally know their true colors .
It is not wrong to be in relationship before marriage as in islam " cintakan Allah sayangi sesama manusia " . But if the love between two parties over the limits set by Allah , then that is wrong .
My intention of saying all these not because that i am perfect or i never made mistakes . I've been through so many things in my life and i've made a lot of mistakes along the way . And i regret my past . But remember , the door to repentance is always open for anyone because " Allah loves the taa'ibeen ( those who repent ) " . If i can take all my mistakes back , i would . Not even for my future husband but for myself . But sadly i can't ...
Based on one of the best video i've heard and watched : " so you think you're in love ? " by nouman ali khan . Basically , this article speaks for itself . Go search and watch it on youtube .
